Some people feel that it is difficult to choose gift for boyfriend, however, other people may feel that it is not difficult at all choosing gift for boyfriend. The level of difficulty, feels by different persons, actually depends on how well a girlfriend knows her boyfriend. A girlfriend, who knows her boyfriend very well, can easily pick a birthday present since she has known what her boyfriend’s likeness, character, behavior, etc. which can be easily considered while choosing a birthday gift that is tailored to her boyfriend’s expectation.
The “relationship period” with a boyfriend is one of the factors that affects how well a girlfriend knows her boyfriend.
Relationship under 1 (one) year is considered as a stage where a girlfriend is in a process of accessing his boyfriend’s personality, therefore, it might be difficult choosing a good gift for a boyfriend in this period. However, since it is your boyfriend’s birthday, whether it is difficult or not, you should try to find a gift that is best for your boyfriend in his special day. Here are several tips to consider while choosing a gift for your boyfriend:
· Focus on what he is saying everytime you are talking to him.
Anything can be talked about while communicating with your boyfriend. Sometimes you share your experience, sometimes he talks about his experience. Sometimes you talk about your hobby and he will share his hobby in return. There should be a present that you can think about to give him by tailoring the gift ideas to his experience and hobby.
For instance, your boyfriend likes golf; you may buy him a brand new set of golf equipment
However, if it is far from your budget, you can think about other alternatives such as golf shoeswhich are definitely cheaper compare to brand new set of golf equipment. It does not have to be something that only your boyfriend is interested in, sometimes, you can also find something that is of interest for both of you. If you are able to find something that you both are interested in, automatically you will find it easier and enjoyable while purchasing a perfect gift for your boyfriend.
· Focus on his needs
Most people needs certain thing during a period of time, for instance, your boyfriend’s gadget has suddenly broken down, than during this special day, it is wise to buy him a new gadget, but remember, this new gadget should be tailored to what he likes. Do not buy him a BlackBerrywhile he is interested in Iphoneor vice versa. However, your boyfriend might not be in sudden needs of something during his birthday or during the day you want to present him with a gift, but it is worth to focus on his needs since if you are able to present him with the gift that he is in need, this will give you a plus as his girlfriend because he will realize that you care and give attention to him.
· Focus on his job
His job can also give you an idea while picking a best gift for him. For instance, your boyfriend is a doctor; you may consider a pen as a gift for him. The pens, to be given, can be a luxury pen or a personalized pen
engraved with his name. A pen is absolutely tailored to a doctor as a boyfriend’s profession because a doctor always needs pen to write prescription for patients and/or other medical description. It is also a plus for you since the pen, gifted by you, will always accompany him and reminded him of you.
· Ask his family or best friends
You may ask help from his brothers, sisters or best friends. They have definitely known him very well and know what his taste like. But make sure that they have the time to be spent for you and are happy to help you.
· Ask him directly
You may ask him directly what he expects during his birthday or what he expects during meantime if you are planning to give him a present other than his birthday. This will give you a straight answer and you do not have to spend much time in considering the perfect gift for him. However, if you ask him directly, it will not be a surprise anymore. If you want to keep it as a surprise gift for your boyfriend, you should consider the points mentioned before.
For relationship more than 1 (one) year, it is usually not difficult anymore to choose a best gift for your boyfriend, however, you may still take into consideration the points mentioned above. The gifts, given to a boyfriend in this relationship stage, should show your feelings to him, for instance, you may give him a photo frame with photos of both of you during the happiest time together. Or perhaps you may as well plan a holiday or a trip together to his favorite place and create another happy time together. But remember, make sure that anything, that you are going to present to him as a gift, should not be greater than your affordable prepared budget. Regardless of the monetary value of a gift, the important factors, in considering gift ideas during this stage, are giving him something that can convey your feeling, reminding him of the happy time you both spend together such as the time during your first date, and remember that all gifts given should be memorable.
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